Inspired by a Newsletter Subscriber!
This week’s historic cemetery symbols post was inspired by an email from Bill Dodds, a reader who subscribes to my weekly author newsletter. Like me, Bill enjoys traipsing through historic graveyards and taking photos of interesting headstones.
Bill lives in Massachusetts, and he had a question about the symbolic meaning behind Weeping Willows: “As far as i can tell it started to appear on stones in the 1820’s and had about a 50 or 60 year run before it more or less disappeared again.”
What do weeping willows mean on a headstone?
I’m still researching Weeping Willows, but here’s what I’ve learned, so far:
As you might have guessed Weeping Willows symbolize grief and mourning. I have also been told that in some Native American traditions, a weeping willow means that the deceased was an Iriquois Indian. I doubt, however, that Bill is running into a slew of Iriquois graves during his jaunts.
Most likely, the weeping willow that Bill is seeing up in Massachusetts and the ones that I see here in Texas are referring to ancient Greek symbols that were popular during the 1800’s. In this case, the willow tree is associated with the Underworld. According to ancient Greek lore, Orpheus carried a willow branch with him when he traveled to the Underworld to rescue Eurydice from Hades.
What do weeping willows mean on a headstone?
By the way, the first 2 photos in this post were taken by Bill Dodds up in Massachusetts, while the 3rd one was taken by me, here in Texas. Isn’t it interesting to see how differently the willow trees are represented even though the graves are from the same time period? To me, the ones I see here in Texas look a bit like rag mops!
Isn’t it interesting how cemetery symbols go in and out of fashion – just like everything else! I also find it interesting how many links there are between cemetery traditions and ancient Greece? I guess this means I need to bone up on my ancient Greek myths!
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It’s funny, I’ve never seen that symbolism on UK headstones – the Victorians had a whole range of other things they liked using. Do you know if the Weeping Willow was restricted to the US?
Oh, wow! I don’t know whether the Weeping Willow is restricted to the US or not. It’s been a while since I wandered through a cemetery in the UK, but now I definitely need to get back there ASAP. Thanks for dropping by and leaving a comment! :)
Hehe! I know, I know… it’s a strange pastime – especially since I’m not the slightest bit morbid. (At least, I don’t think I am!)
That’s interesting.
The second sentence in the first paragraph made me laugh too. That’s some hobby. ;)